I know you expecting me to say, do this and do that for your relationship to work, NO!!!!; is not happening, everybody gives relationship advice everywhere, even your neighbor, comedian, psychologist, but is better to get advice from those who have been in that position, those that have a longstanding relationship, those are the right people to ask, we live in a world, where our pride and lack of forgiveness has increased the rate of divorce, where we spend millions of dollars on marriages to please people.
KEYS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP.
Commit the Relationship into Gods presence- I know people dont like to hear this word, but committing and dedicating what you have into Gods hand makes the difference, because he loves you so much, no matter how many times we sin against him, he is willing and ready to have a relationship with us.
Understanding Each other - if we all understand each other, we have less quarrel, less fighting, less argument, instead we have more happiness, peace of mind, talk with your partner, what he or she dont like, hear him out or hear her out.
Spend less time with technology- i know we are all guilty of this, years ago when there wasnt internet, or phone, couples spend time with each other talking, site seeing, making dinner together, go on adventure, these things brought about connection, Why cant we leave our phone, ipad, computer and talk to our partner, have fun together, everywhere you go, couples go out , they are texting their friends or they use face book, common humans were created to interact with each other.
Loving yourself – couples consistently practiced self-love, you cant give what you dont have it simply means that individuals in a couple love him or herself and treated him or herself as well as he or she treated his or her partner.
They pull their own weight and provide support and love when necessary. But the key words are: self-love
Trust- Trust is something that is built over time. It involves being faithful, yes, but it also involves being reliable and providing emotional security.
Commitment – it’s not just a word; it’s real action. Happy couples knew that they could count on each other to be there. Even when health issues came up or other crisis, they are there for their partners through thick and thin.
Don’t fight to win. Remember that you are on the same team and should be working to resolve any issues. Every couple usually quarrel, but dont let the day go by, without resolving the issue.
Be nice. Don’t fight mean. No name-calling or accusations. Treat your partner with respect and love. And it you can’t do that, then maybe that’s a relationship you shouldn’t be in.
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