This topic is very vital in any relationship, people get all wrong about trust, Trust is a valued character trait often lacking in today's world. We have to learn to trust God in every circumstance and in every area of our lives.
As i always say about putting GOD first, that is always the first step, trust in God to give you the right partner, Face it. If you don’t trust your man or your lady you are not going to have a loving and successful relationship. Not trusting him or her is going to cause problems. It might start out small and grow into a major fight. Or he might not be worth trusting.
Steps in handling trust issue;
1. Talk to your partner about how you truly feel, not your friend, co worker, they don't know what is in your partners heart, if you have an issue with your partner let it out.
Please stop Nagging!!!!it really drives couples crazy most times. Be nice about it, though. Let him or her know that you have a problem trusting him or her. Talk to your partner and let him or her know why – it could be something he or she is doing or has done or something that someone has done in the past to you. But it’s like an addiction – if you don’t recognize that you have a problem, you won’t be able to fix it. And if he is a good man, chances are he will understand and work to help you resolve your trust issues.
2. Stop lying- Try to be sincere and open to your partner, i know we sometimes keep things in our heart, because, we don't want to hurt our partner, but is not the right thing to do.
3. Be consistent. Give your partner reason to trust you. If you tell him or her that you are going to be home at 6, be there, or at least call and let him know that you are stuck in traffic or whatever. Don’t give him reasons not to trust you.
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